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Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Dangerous Vietnam

While nowadays everybody is considering Mexico a dangerous place from a health point of view, there are some real dangers in Vietnam as well.... of a different nature of course:

http://www.thanhniennews.com/healthy/?catid=8&newsid=48173

"Doctors are reporting an increase in the number of men being rushed to hospital after their sexual organs have been cut off by jealous wives or girlfriends. 

The good news for the castrated men is that the amputated organ can be successfully reattached if it is preserved properly. "

..........

"Other cases turn out poorly for the man as the wife continues to vent her anger by throwing out the severed member for some dog to eat, or putting it in boiling water to cook for a while."

These Vietnamese women are really dangerous huh? Now you understand why i am still not married, yah???? 

Conclusion: make sure you have some ice, some salt and some clean plastic bag at home :)

Saturday, March 21, 2009

This Earh Hour Thing....

For quite a white I see the promo on the TV about Earth Hour. I think it is a good campaign to create awareness in the developed world about the global warming and I support this initiative and general the initiatives that tackle global warming.

I allow myself to be a bit cynical though and also to challenge a bit the earth hour fans.

Firstly, I think the organizers should award Vietnam as a champion of earth hour, as here the electricity company makes sure that there is earth hour event quite frequently. Power shortages are quite common, especially in the dry season when the hydro power plants are not on full capacity. So sometimes I just stay at home in the dark and do my private earth hour.

The challenge for campaigns like the earth hour is that it engages the developed world mostly, and not so much the energy hungry developing world. Those people who have power shortages every once in a while, can’t really be enthusiastic about another earth hour. So how can the developing world be engaged in the discussion of global warming? How can we create awareness? Because most of the increase in energy consumption (and cause for global warming) will come from the developing world in the next couple of years.

Another personal observation is that during these power shortages, the sexual activity increases. I mean it is dark and you happen to be with a girl at home, what can you do? Now if 1 billion people join this earth hour, then there is a pretty high chance of some babies to be borne. How much is the energy saving from the earth hour and how much energy is consumed for rising up these new babies and whatever they will consume during their lifetime???? I am sure that over the years an event like this is increasing energy consumption, even if it is decreasing in short term.

Last year I have been invited to do this earth hour thing with my friends. So here I arrive to the place of my friend where lots of candles were burnt during earth hour. I am sure the energy consumed for making those candles+ the one used for their transportation is much higher then the energy used by an energy efficient light bulb. And after the one hour, they turned on to the maximum all the air conditioners…F#%&k

My point is that it is important to have awareness campaigns and the earth hour seems to be a decent one. But substance also matters and besides switching off the lights, others steps are needed. I rarely use air-conditioning, but sometimes walk naked in the house to coop with the heat. I tried to convince my bosses that we should apply the same measures in the office, but it seems they don’t care about saving the planet because they did not agree to that.

Now that my laptop is out of battery soon (and there is a power interruption in my flat), I have to finish this post, and will publish on the net later on. Signing off from the city of earth hour: Saigon.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

On the way to become famous....

On the way to become famous, so far I have been featured in, gave interviews or participated in talk shows for:
  • Local TV in my home town in Romania (Szekelykeresztur)
  • Local Radio and Newspaper in Viborg, Denmark
  • Regional TVs, Radios and Newspapers in Romania where I lived and also where I studied (Mostly in Nagyvarad and Szekelyudvarhely)
  • National Public TV Channel in Romania (TVR2)
  • National Private TV Channel in Hungary (TV2)
These were mostly due to my activities in different NGOs (except the Hungarian TV interview, which was about working in Singapore, and one newspaper article in the regional paper on the same topic). At a certain point I was more often on TV in Nagyvarad than at the courses at the university (hope my teachers don’t read this, or people blackmail me for this statement when I will become famous :):):) ).

Now I can add one more to the list (probably the biggest in terms of audience), which is the interview I gave yesterday for the Vietnamese National TV (VTV1) in prime time news about the stock market in Vietnam and the opinion of foreign investors in general. Hope that I was “intelligent enough” and sounded like an "expert" :):):) And hope that this did not cause the market drop today, after a short rally in the past days (joking yah?) :):):):)

The thing I hate in this media appearances is that one always needs to worry whether he/she looks stupid or not…. Can be stressful… No hot babe came to me to ask for autograpgh yet. My assumption is that hot babes don't watch news about stock market, rather than me looking stupid on TV.... Otherwise they should have come to me, is it?

Requests for further interviews will be a barometer whether it was a good or a bad thing what I have told, but I am happy to start building up my "brand" and public figure in Vietnam . PR helped me a lot in achieving my previous results where I worked and I hope that here it will make things easier as well.

Saturday, March 07, 2009

Friday night's movie

I watched yesterday at the cinema the movie called Revolutionary Road. Actually did not go to the cinema with the intention to watch this particular movie, but just went randomly there and picked this one.

I am not updated at all on what new movies are out there and also what worth watching or not, so it was quite a gamble as I did not know what this movie was about, but it turned out that it was a good one.

I really liked the topic and it gives a lot of things to think about in terms of relationships, hopes & dreams and about all those dilemmas with the “settling down” thing. I really recommend to everyone to watch it…. (not commenting on the acting part though). Also the novel on which this movie is based on worth reading I guess.

Sunday, March 01, 2009

The story of the domestic helper

In Vietnam one has to spend quite a lot of time with the day-to-day issues of life. Things are not as simple and straightforward, especially as one does not speak the language. So the free time that one has after work and after the day-today issues of life is very little. I have been struggling to increase this time and cut down on time consuming things. Hence I got a domestic helper. Of course I had couple of challenges at the beginning, like the language, so I had to switch a couple of them.

I almost gave up on the idea of having one, but then I went out one night in a bar with friends where you always have these girls to serve your table and entertain you. In this bar, they don’t do anything dodgy (i.e. offering “special services”), but just make sure that you consume as much as possible. So one of the girls there had some decent English and then we have talked about where she is from and what she is doing and stuff.

She is from the countryside and came to Saigon to study. Of course that she needs to finance herself, because the parents are too poor, and sometimes she needs to send money home as well. So during the day she goes to college and in the evening she goes to work to this bar, six days a week. Of course the pay is shit, her salary is around 55 USD and she gets another 100 - 150 USD from tips. Now with the recession, less and less people are going to the bar so the tip is less and less. She is struggling to maintain expenses and always short on cash (having a cash flow issue, but managing the overall costs well).

So I proposed that she can help me with my day to day issues and become my domestic helper, which she was very happy to accept. Of course I am a bit overpaying by local standards, but I guess it is a good deal for both of us. I have more time and she is financially more stable. I was a bit reluctant with the whole thing, because she has to work even more now, but she seems to be happy with the deal. Maybe I feel a bit of guilt for being an exploiter somehow…

For me she is quite inspiring, how she finances her studies and fighting to advance in life. I guess that is in the genes of the Vietnamese people and this is a very good example of that. Also a good reminder how lucky but spoiled I am now.

I thought that it is an interesting aspect of life here in Vietnam; you tell me your opinion.

Friday, January 30, 2009

The ghost town face of Saigon…

Saigon is a buzzing city, all the time people roaming around on their bikes and you wherever you look or wherever you go, hundreds of people surround you….

But suddenly all this disappeared during the TET (Lunar New Year) holiday. Pretty much just like at Christmas in Europe, everybody went home to his/her hometown, and suddenly Saigon became one of the quietest cities.

Pollution disappeared and I could breathe fresh air…. I could go to places in less then 10 minutes from my home, even if that usually took 25 minutes (loved speeding within the city on the empty roads)…. And somehow I felt the whole city as being a totally different one than the one I knew.

It is interesting how cities can change; the mood and atmosphere of a city can change, just like that of the people….

I really liked the quiet Saigon and I would not mind if every 4th week would be a quiet week like this :):):) For the rest of the weeks, bring on the buzz :):):)

Friday, December 19, 2008

Telegraphic post

  • Here is my preferred hat that I wear in order to help me through the financial crisis and to motivate in achieving impossible sales targets:

  • Luckily our company is doing well during the crisis due to good risk management procedures and smart decisions. My job is secure and looking forward to new challenges. Thanks for all your concerns.

  • Just read shockingly that Cambodia’s budget for next year is US$ 1.9 billon… comparing with the numbers from the financial crisis and scandals, I wonder how much country building could have been done with that…. Maybe governments could bail out countries like these instead of rotten bank and auto compnaies….

  • I was impressed with the whole Christmas decoration in HCMC. The center is full of lights and nice decoration and I guess half of the city is there to wonder around and enjoy the spirit. The place has a fantastic energy, boys and girls on motorbike just enjoying a great Saigon evening. Kinda cool and this is the magic of Saigon, this energy.

  • 24 hours to go till my flight back home and did not buy yet one single Christmas present…. ah…. I am such a terrible shopper. It seems that I wasted 3 years in Singapore without learning the basics of the life there….

  • I guess I was a terrible blog writer since I moved to HCMC and also very bad in keeping contact with all my previous friends from all over the world. It has been quite a marathon run for me. I guess that will be my plan during this holiday to catch up with as many as possible.

  • Wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

The song of this week

I had this song on repeat mode this week, so thought to share it with you:

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Living in the happiest nation in Asia

I was reading some report and have stumbled upon this interesting chart:

Now you definitelly have a reason to visit Vietnam:) Hapiness guaranteed :)

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Good genes

As you can see, there are some good genes in the family (he is my brother's son, not mine):Posted by a proud uncle and godfather :)

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

The CFA Challenge

Yesterday night I have successfully registered for my Level I CFA exam for 7th of June 2009. If you wonder what CFA is, well it is supposed to be the gold standard of professional credentials within the global investment community.

I guess this is one of the biggest educational challenges for me... but also excited about the fact that I am back to learning again. Why is a challenge? Check the pass rates for this June for the different level exams:

Level I Pass Rate: 35%
Level II Pass Rate: 46%
Level III Pass Rate: 53%

But i like the challenegs and I am looking forward to get my books to study :):):) It requires lots of discipline and sacrefice, but I am really hopeful that I will get it and I am looking forward to your support in doing so.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Planning my Christmas trip :):):):)

So happy that I bought my ticket back to Europe this week for Christmas/New Year :):):) I have been home last September and I really look forward to go home this winter, especially that I haven't been home for Christmas since 2004.
Here is my brief plan:
20th of December - Fly out from Saigon to Vienna
21st of December - Vienna
22nd of December onwards at home
2nd-3rd of January - Hungary/Budapest
3rd-4th of January - London
4th of January - Flying back to Saigon from London
I am also happy that this time I fly with Qatar Airways, should be cool with them... Still not Singapore Airlines... but hope that next year I will get back to flying with SQ again....
I plan to spend my new year's eve in Romania/Hungary so I if you have any cool plans for an awesome party, then please let me know:):):) The ideal would be to have all my friends in one place and throw a big party but that is hardly possible as all my friends are all over the country:(:(:(:(
Yah, one more thing, I booked ticket for one person... so no Vietnamese girl joining me, okies? No more teasing! :)

Saturday, August 02, 2008

Simple things that make me happy

I am happy that I discovered a shop here in HCMC where they sell all kind of imported foods (introduced to me by a client from Singapore!!!). Now I can buy stuff that have no MSG in it and brands that I can't find in supermarkets. I just bought Hungarian salami, Gouda cheese from Netherlands, Hungarian champagne, French pate, etc :).
But the bonus for me is that I found my favourite choco drink: Nesquik :):):) I used to always bring to Singapore from Romania, but now no need for that anymore. I paid an incredible 11 USD for a pack of 450g....but now I am slurping my chco drink and I am happy :):):) Sometimes simple things make me happy and life enjoyable. Today that simple thing is Nesquik!!! What is yours?

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

I feel hunted

A lot of things work very differently here in Vietnam… One example is who asks who to get married with whom. I always thought that usually the guys ask the girls whether they want to get married with them or not. Here I am asked fairly frequently whether I want to marry her by the girl (or her friends). Of course this happens only to white guys. I feel hunted down….

One typical conversation I had yesterday with a girl in the elevator:

Girl: How are you?
Me: Fine thank you, and you?
Girl: I am ok too. How old are you?
Me: 28 … and you?
Girl: 24… so are you married? (asking with a very shy voice and looking down to the floor… I already know where this is leading as I have been in this conversations a couple of times… so I enjoy the moment)
Me: Not yet (she suddenly has a big smile and sparkling eyes, bright face)
Girl: And do you have girlfriend?
Me: Not really (even bigger smile on her face and already I feel that she is ready to jump on me)
Girl: Do you want to marry Vietnamese girl?
Me: Why not, if I find a nice Vietnamese girl like you (playing to the tune)
Girl: oh…. I can marry you if you want (Realizes that she is in trouble now as she exposed her thoughts and laughs, becomes shy again, looks down and she is relieved that the elevator door opens and she can run out)

I would have not written about it if it would not have had happen this conversation at least once a week…. I already know the flow of the discussion as it is the same each time. They are very direct in this matter and they have a flow of questions, doing market research professionally. :)

Another typical situation I get in is when one of my Vietnamese friends/colleagues invites me for coffee, drinks, dinner. Most likely then not, totally "unexpectedly and unannounced" one of the female friends/cousins/neighbors just happens to join, then somehow always gets seated near me (it is funny how they always make the arrangements in a way to ensure this).

And then after the meeting comes the evaluation part when I am asked by the friend/colleague whether I liked her or not, if I got her number, if I want to take her out. This questioning also comes with a sales pitch on how nice she is, what qualities she has, why she would be a good wife/girlfriend. Now it is easy if it is about a nice girl, but I am fairly embarrassed when I have to politely tell that she is ugly and there is no way I am going to go out with her.

With all these offers on hand, I still won’t get married for a while, don’t worry about it. Especially that I am super busy and getting even busier in the next couple of months…. but at least I can assure my mom that there is hope :):):) hahah :)

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Superchallenged

Beware of what you wish as you might get it... says one of the Metallica songs (a bit more poetic is the expression that they have in the song).
I wanted challenge and I got it. The most extreme of it i guess.... I am superchallenged personally, professionally, physically, mentally, culturally, etc... Whatever area you name it... I am superchallenged in it. When I think that I am on top of the things, then comes another challenge... even more different, even more stretching.... Every day is a new lesson for life and it is so intense that I feel like I am living in one day as much as I lived in one year previously.... every hour spent here puts me in a situation which is new, which requests quick decisions on what to do, how to act, what to say, how to behave... it requires me to figure out what is behind every gesture, word, blink of an eye, smile, letter in an e-mail.... As one of my friend said... it's the feeling of cluelessness of a baby in a topless bar (not the best metaphor I guess but at least it makes you think how that feeling might be, which can be a challenge itself) ....

I go to sleep now, as tomorrow is another day when in spite of all the preparation I will be superchallenged again... it is the way of life here and if you want to change your life and challenge everything you were and you knew before, then you can join me. :) Things will never be the same again!!!