Complex vs Simple
I wrote about quite a few movies on my blog, soon it will become a movie review blog :). Well, it is quite cheap entertainment here in Singapore. And especially when it was a love movie, I always said that wow, this could be my life, or that the topic is so familiar.
Looking back in time and to the present as well, I realize that my love life was quite hectic and strange and it could be a much better movie then those in Hollywood or Bollywood. It is more complex, it is more beautiful, it is more dramatic, it hurts much more. I mean for some people “Closer” (the movie) was wow, what a complex thing, and I felt bored at a certain point… It was not extraordinary compared to what I have been through.
Why is so complex? I don’t know. Maybe because it is not a linear thing, like in a movie. Maybe because I am blurry. Maybe because life is more complex like a movie. And movies can’t capture the subtle things which may seem small, but have a big impact. Those kind of subtle things described so well by Kundera in one of his books….
Who am I with now? Who do I love now? Well, this is a question I hear quite often from the people here in Asia (especially from girls), wondering how a tall, European good looking (at least according to them) guy is alone or not hanging out with all the Asian girls.
So this is a kind of a “corporate statement” style of confession to bring light a bit in the complexity of my soul. Unfortunately I am not together with anybody “officially”, but I am in love.
I am in love with Ioana, my ex-girlfriend. Will I be together with her again? Don’t know. When I will brake down the complexity of life in simple things, then probably I will find out. And then I will issue another “corporate statement”:). Would I want to be with her? Yes.
Probably I will be very unpopular from now on writing these (can send the link to all those Singaporean girls hitting on me :) ), some will be disappointed and angry. But it is a good thing to make things simple.
(Song of the day, not related to this entry: U2 – Crumbs from your table)
Looking back in time and to the present as well, I realize that my love life was quite hectic and strange and it could be a much better movie then those in Hollywood or Bollywood. It is more complex, it is more beautiful, it is more dramatic, it hurts much more. I mean for some people “Closer” (the movie) was wow, what a complex thing, and I felt bored at a certain point… It was not extraordinary compared to what I have been through.
Why is so complex? I don’t know. Maybe because it is not a linear thing, like in a movie. Maybe because I am blurry. Maybe because life is more complex like a movie. And movies can’t capture the subtle things which may seem small, but have a big impact. Those kind of subtle things described so well by Kundera in one of his books….
Who am I with now? Who do I love now? Well, this is a question I hear quite often from the people here in Asia (especially from girls), wondering how a tall, European good looking (at least according to them) guy is alone or not hanging out with all the Asian girls.
So this is a kind of a “corporate statement” style of confession to bring light a bit in the complexity of my soul. Unfortunately I am not together with anybody “officially”, but I am in love.
I am in love with Ioana, my ex-girlfriend. Will I be together with her again? Don’t know. When I will brake down the complexity of life in simple things, then probably I will find out. And then I will issue another “corporate statement”:). Would I want to be with her? Yes.
Probably I will be very unpopular from now on writing these (can send the link to all those Singaporean girls hitting on me :) ), some will be disappointed and angry. But it is a good thing to make things simple.
(Song of the day, not related to this entry: U2 – Crumbs from your table)
posted by Vandor Szekely at
1:19 PM
9 Comments:
Life is simple. Perhaps so unbearably simple that we need to make it complex.
Oh mennyire szeretlek téged,
ki szóra bírtad egyaránt
a szív legmélyebb öregeiben
cseleit szövö, fondor magányt
s a mindenséget.
WOW, didn't know that you learned hungarian in the meantime...:):):):)
yeah...it's been a very long time since I have seen you the last time....
What do you mean, I always spoke hungarian :) But i think you forgot this because indeed it's been tooooooooo damn long!
Since this is your corporate statement on love then let me remind you of how few corporate statements are actually true! :)
Btw, you are the ONLY one I love! (thats my corporate statement)
Corporate statement as a reaction to your corporate statement: Feel like we need to catch up and drink a bottle of red wine and have some discussions :) Miss your inteligence :):):)
After drinking a bottle of wine ? Oh, well .. ;-)
Nothing without you Ludy... ;)
u know, for old times sake...
:):):):):) So what you two have done at the AI reunion????
:-o!!!!
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